What I Wish I Knew Before Adopting a Cat
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Cats are silly, funny, stubborn little critters that are a true joy to have around the house. Before I adopted my cat, I was pretty naive when it came to all things feline. I enjoyed playing with my friends’ cats when I’d visit their homes, but one-off visits were not enough to let me know the realities of properly caring for these majestic animals. Each cat has a unique personality that you will learn to adore. They also each have their own preferences when it comes to beds, foods, and types of affection. Adopting one has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, but there is some insight that I wish had been shared with me beforehand.
Overall, the work and effort to take care of a cat is well worth it. There is nothing quite like having a cozy kitty cuddled up on your chest purring to start and end your day. If getting a cat is in the cards for you, I hope these tips and product recomendations help make the transition easier. And if you already have a cat and are looking for some guidance, welcome to the club. I hope you enjoy the ride.
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Pro Tip: Get Pet Insurance
Having pet insurance is a must! The vet is much more expensive than I had initially anticipated, and without pet insurance, I would be panicked at the cost of procedures. I chose Lemonade because it covers tests, diagnostics, medications, and procedures as well as regular wellness annuals. I’ve gotten reimbused easily the few times I had to use it so far. They even have a preventative care package designed for puppies and kittens that covers procedures like spaying or neutering, microchipping, flea medication, and up to six vaccines or boosters. So if you’re opting for a new and young furry friend, this might be the insurance for you. That being said, it takes a bit of research to find the company and plan right for you. The ASPCA has a helpful guide to start, and I recommend talking to your vet office about their recommendations, too.
They Need to be Entertained
Despite their cool, aloof reputation, cats actually need a lot of stimulation and interaction. A bored cat is a mischievous cat, and in some cases, a sad one. Having a rotation of toys keeps things interesting and helps your cat burn off energy in a healthy way. My cat loves toys that allow him to jump, run, and pounce. Laser pointers can be fun in small doses, but make sure to follow up with a toy they can actually catch so they don’t get frustrated. And don’t underestimate the joy of a cardboard box or a crinkly paper bag — my cat loves boxes more than some of his toys. Below are a few toys that I find excite him the most.
Litter Can Get Messy
Cats are generally very clean animals, but their litter box? Not so much. Of all the things that surprised me as a cat owner, the litter situation was the messiest (and smelliest) part. It took some trial and error, but a few key upgrades made a huge difference.
First, the type of litter and litter box really matter. There are high-end automatic litter boxes that scoop for you, which is super convenient if you’re okay with the price tag. A more affordable option is a self-sifting litter box, especially when paired with pine pellets, which are great at minimizing odor and tracking. Enclosed or top-entry litter boxes keep smells contained and keep litter from spilling out. Be open to a few options, as cats can be picky — just because you like a closed box doesn’t mean they will.
With the right setup, the smell is a non-issue, but litter still gets kicked around no matter what. A good dust buster or vacuum is a must for keeping your floors clean and your sanity intact.
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Grooming is Essential
Cats are excellent self-groomers, but they still need a little help. Trimming their nails and brushing their coats are the main things to stay on top of. Nail trims can feel intimidating at first, but after many Youtube videos, I found a routine that works:
– First, wrap your cat in a towel burrito style.
– Use a Churu pop or other lickable treat as a distraction
– Use sharp, high-quality clippers made for cats
Pro tip: Start handling their paws early and often to build comfort and trust for nail trims. If you’re still unsure, ask the vet to show you at your next appointment. For brushing, I use a gentle brush for regular use and a more heavy-duty Furminator, recommended by my vet tech, for shedding season.
They’re Early Morning Risers
Cats are essentially alarm clocks with one setting. I love my cat dearly, but there are some days where I would really love to sleep in. Cats are crepuscular, meaning that they are most active at dawn and dusk. When dawn breaks, so does my cat’s fast. If you enjoy sleeping in, invest in an automatic feeder. It’s a game-changer, ensuring your cat gets fed without relying on you to get out of bed. If they tend to go full zoomies mode at sunrise, earplugs and a sleep mask can also help you rest through the chaos.
They Need to Scratch
Your cat will scratch and claw at things. Doors, sofas, and rugs are some common victims to this innate behavior they have. Scratching is natural, necessary, and totally unavoidable. Trimming their nails will help, but it’s your job to give your cat better things to scratch than your brand new couch — declawing is painful and never recommended. Be sure to place the posts in locations that your cat is already scratching. Gently redirect their attention to these designated items to save your furniture and sanity. Cats often love vertical options like tall posts or wall-mounted scratchers; cardboard scratchers are cheap and effective.
They Like a Variety of Beds and Caves
Every cat has their own preferences when it comes to lounging. Some love cozy hideaways, while others prefer high perches with a view. Giving your cat a designated spot (that isn’t your laptop or freshly folded laundry) helps them feel truly at home. Whether your style is minimalist, boho, or modern farmhouse, there are plenty of cat beds, caves, and towers out there that blend seamlessly with your aesthetic.
They’re Particular About Food and Feedings
With all the options and brands available, feeding your cat can feel overwhelming. Wet food is essential for proper hydration — cats need to stay well-hydrated as they’re prone to urinary blockages. But when it comes to what kind, and what dry food you’re feeding, start with a high-quality brand that fits your cat’s age and health needs. If you’re unsure, ask your vet for guidance, especially before trying trendy diets. If your cat has appetite changes, weight shifts, or digestive issues, check in with your vet. Food plays a big role in their overall well-being.
Here are a few key tips:
– Plastic bowls can cause feline acne due to bacteria buildup. Switch to stainless steel, ceramic, or glass to help prevent it.
– If your cat isn’t drinking much, try separating their food and water bowls. Cats often prefer running water, so a cat fountain can encourage them to drink more and support kidney health.
– Consider using elevated bowls to help with digestion (and lessen neck strain).
– Stick to a consistent feeding routine, whether you free-feed or serve meals at set times.
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Betsey Goldwasser is a writer with a focus on beauty, fashion, mental health, and holiday content. When she’s not working as a therapist, you can find her behind the camera or writing at her computer. In her downtime, she loves to watercolor, collage, and bake. Whether in her art or everyday life, she’s always finding ways to bring creativity into everything she does.
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